Game Theory, Mentoring and Coaching in Relationships

What do presidents, world class performing artists, corporate executives, spiritual teachers, champion athletes, and experts of all types, have in common?

They all have coaches and mentors.



Do you want to:

  • Make a difference in the world?
  • Become economically independent?
  • Fulfill your goals?
  • Help others to eliminate unnecessary struggle?
  • Be more efficient and effective?

If the answer to these questions is “yes” then it is time to explore Game Theory Based Life Coaching.

Whether you are looking to live an extraordinary life or begin an extraordinary new career the Institute for Ultimate Coaching, is the only Life and Success Coaching institution in the world that uses Applied Game Theory as the foundation for our syllabus.


What Is Game Theory?

Game Theory: Among scientists it is the name used to describe mathematical concepts (systems) that were designed to explain why and how individuals and organizations strategize, i.e. make decisions when one person (or more than one other person) might also affect the outcome of the decision. Eight Noble prizes have been given to theorists working in Game Theory. game theory is a system of creativity and ideas.



How can Game Theory be applied to the creation of effective life strategies?

Through a system created applied game theory

Applied Game Theory is an umbrella term for thousands of life strategies including those related to business, politics, spirituality, competition, sports, romance and even interactions with nonhuman players such as computers, animals, and plants.  Most of the games within the model of my approach to Applied Game Theory combine rational and intuitive strategies the goal which is to maximize love, joy, freedom, clarity of thought, emotional balance, personal contentment, inner wisdom and happiness.

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Based on the Game Based Thinking Model: The seven dumbest mistakes in you can make in a relationship are:


  1. Forcing intimacy
  2. Expecting your mate to read Your mind
  3. Playing the martyr
  4. Thinking you are always right
  5. Rescuing your mate (Being an enabler)
  6. Taking your mate for granted
  7. Letting Passion die


From the book: The Seven Dumbest Relationship Mistakes Smart People Make by Carolyn N. Bushong


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Lewis Harrison – RealUGuru, is a writer, mentor, success and wealth coach, content-rich, motivational speaker, and an entrepreneur specializing in problem solving and strategizing  based on game thinking, applied game theory and Game Thinking.

He is the author of over twenty-two books published in five languages.


Don’t forget to tune to the RealUGuru Radio show every Thursday 4-6 PM EST  at WIOX 91.3 FM or on your smart device at

WIOX is a diverse station that broadcasts original programming including presentation from NPR, the BBC, Democracy Now etc.

If you are interested in business success in the 21st Century in the arts or in any other endeavor you need to read Lewis’ recently published business books.

You can find books on game theory and business success here:

This course and all the offerings on  focus on the application of applied game thinking, gamification, decision science, positive psychology, happiness,  and visionary thinking to solve basic, complex and extreme problems. He is the creator of a free course on business success and human potential.

Here is a short interview with Lewis;

Lewis more about Lewis work at



He also offers private fee based coaching programs. 


Lewis Harrison speaks to organizations and businesses of all types and offers seminars throughout the world on his work on the art and science of decision making through spiritually motivated  “Game Based Thinking”.


His company offers chair massage services to meeting planners, event planners and incentive travel programs.  Massage groups in his massage network offer services in all areas of the United States including: Chair Massage Chicago – Trade Show Massage Washington D.C. – Stress Master Massage Las Vegas – Castro District Corporate Massage San Francisco – Los Angeles Stress management Massage – and The Javits Center Chair Massage Company – Capital Chair Massage Albany NY


He also offers private fee based coaching programs. 

Call him at 212-724-8782 for more information.


Call him at 212-724-8782 for more information.


The Wisdom Path for Reiki Masters

With a deep your understanding  of  Zen, Taoism or some other spiritually based studies you can be a better healer.


No matter how advanced  your intellect, and mental clarity, the fact remains that in your practice you will need to explore how the appropriate application of your individual talents, personal resources, and your ability to delay short term gratification can help you create your best life.


Both Zen and Taoism are essentially “Wisdom Paths”. They are approaches to spirituality that explore what “Is” through metaphor and poetic thoughts, while guiding you to surrender the need to understand your thoughts concerning what “is”. Each of these paths, Taoism and Zen, has subtle differences that ultimately will dissolve once you have mastered either. It better to drop the distinctions from the very beginning if possible. Let’s just call one’s intention to live life fully, with little or no unnecessary struggle the, “Wisdom Path.”


The Wisdom Path integrates practices and traditions from Zen and Taoism and also draws from a diverse pool of thought including Kabala, Sufism, Game Theory, and mystic Christianity.  Whether the source is Lao Tsu Meister Eckhart, Thomas Merton or the Ball Shem Tov the core element in this work is the sitting meditation often associate with the Soto School of Zen. Also Integrated into the Wisdom Path is the exploration of kōans as practiced in the Rinzai Zen School, and the altered states of consciousness that may naturally arise with deep introspection and contemplation.  The aim of all of these is essentially the same – enlightenment or awakening.  In addition to mediation and the exploration of kōans learning to conserve our resources and balance them as they manifest  through our life skills is equally important.  By merging these approaches, you are in a sense creating a post-modern monastery.


We were recently offering a seminar on stress management at the Catskills Bed and Breakfast  – – in Stamford NY. During the breakout sessions we offered stress management seminars that including creative visualization, spirituality in business and onsite chair massage. The event was a great success.





Ask Lewis

Click below to observe a nine minute video interview Lewis  did with the Award winning journalist Phyllis Haynes on why  people suffer:



Lewis Harrison is the author of sixteen books including

“Spiritual, Not Religious: Sacred Tools for Modern Times” a book of  concerned with personal development, human potential, stress reduction and business excellence.




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He offers stress management programs throughout the United  States. Part of this company is  his corporate chair massage company, provides seated and chair massage for stress management seminars and trainings as well to special events for  meeting planners and meeting professionals in New York City, New Jersey Las Vegas, Los Angeles, Cleveland, Greensboro NC, Florida and other major meeting and conventions venues.




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Lewis Harrison speaks to organizations and businesses of all types and offers seminars throughout the world on his work on the art and science of decision making through spiritually motivated  “Game Based Thinking”





He also offers private fee based coaching programs. 

Call him at 212-724-8782 for more information.